The man who sexually assaulted & raped me in January 2017 was a paparazzi at one time... ...who lost his driver’s license chasing after Britney Spears when speeding in his car. (which was exactly why for most of our friendship -- I drove him around.) His name was Mark Samala. He went to California State … Continue reading My Story About Surviving Sexual Assault – Mark Samala
Don't be afraid to step outta line as a thug ass bruja goddess advocating for social change. They said I wouldn’t be able to graduate unless I took a required class ONLY offered during the day. It happened to be the class you HAD to take to write for the school paper. I pointed out … Continue reading Stepping Outta Line as a Thug Ass Bruja Goddess Advocating for Social Change
This Mother’s Day I spent all day cleaning out my mom’s apartment to help her move into Assisted Living. …NOT something I thought I would be doing that day. When I was packing her stuff, I found a photo of her I hadn’t seen before. This is her, sometime in the late 1970’s / early … Continue reading Fried Chicken & Champagne
There is nothing better than a woman enjoying herself. Another one of my pillars to enjoy success is to stop asking for permission. Those who identify as women often feel the need to ask for permission to be in our full joy. It is our divine birthright to feel joy pulsating through our bodies. ...but … Continue reading Enjoying ourselves as women
How does self-sabotage stand between us and enjoying success? 🤔 Self-sabotage is any action that gets in the way of what your intended goal is. It can come in the form of procrastination, numbing, avoidance and minimizing our capabilities. The truth is we all engage in self sabotage at different points of in our lives … Continue reading Is self-sabotage standing between you and enjoying success?
2020 is approaching quickly.
It is time for all of us to play bigger with our gifts.
Our survival on Mother Earth depends on it.
No one else is doing it for us. WE are the change we are looking for.
Why patriarchal-informed paradigms do not serve the highest good when it comes to achieving success and enjoying it.
Why I still feel afraid to share my story even though I have shared so much already.
The womb is not a place to store fear or pain, it is to create and give birth to life.
Find out more about The Rite of the Womb.
My mom, Pat Stephens, was the first entrepreneur I ever knew. In 1978, before the computers were even a thing, she started her own at-home data entry computer business. When she met my father in 1985, she tells me one of the things he admired most about her was that she was independent and earned … Continue reading The first entrepreneur I ever knew: My mom