My Tender & Troubled Mom: Being at peace with her chaotic & turbulent influence on my life

This is my mom in 1978 with her friends’ child, not me. She must have been 26 or 27 years old here. A family friend sent me this photo yesterday. I look at this photo & the emotions it stirs up inside has nothing to do with the mother I had. I see the mother I didn't have. I'm at … Continue reading My Tender & Troubled Mom: Being at peace with her chaotic & turbulent influence on my life

Taking out the trash with The Public Speaking Mindset

Imagine feeling peaceful as you’re taking out the trash at the end of the day. A cool breeze around you, birds chirping as you walk to the dumpster. The trash area is fucking SMELLY but hey, you’re only there for a moment to dump garbage. Many days the bag felt heavy as a motherfucker. ….but … Continue reading Taking out the trash with The Public Speaking Mindset

Breaking away from toxic relationships with The Public Speaking Mindset

When God hears your call for help, angels come down to assist.The vibration of your voice is sent to the cosmos & like Mrs. Doubtfire...."Help is on the way, dear!"When you decide to heal & speak your request when asking a coach for help, the angels of ancestral justice will guide you.Little by little.Moment by … Continue reading Breaking away from toxic relationships with The Public Speaking Mindset

Being a Whistleblower with The Public Speaking Mindset

My dad was a whistleblower against the $885 million dollar empire of Hughes Market in the 1980s. He was forced to work hard, long hours at a store in Malibu where many of the rich & famous shopped back in the day... ... like Farrah Fawcet, David Hasselhoff, Chevy Chase. His complaints were ignored as … Continue reading Being a Whistleblower with The Public Speaking Mindset

My Story About Surviving Sexual Assault – Mark Samala

The man who sexually assaulted & raped me in January 2017 was a paparazzi at one time... ...who lost his driver’s license chasing after Britney Spears when speeding in his car. (which was exactly why for most of our friendship -- I drove him around.) His name was Mark Samala. He went to California State … Continue reading My Story About Surviving Sexual Assault – Mark Samala

Stepping Outta Line as a Thug Ass Bruja Goddess Advocating for Social Change

Don't be afraid to step outta line as a thug ass bruja goddess advocating for social change. They said I wouldn’t be able to graduate unless I took a required class ONLY offered during the day. It happened to be the class you HAD to take to write for the school paper. I pointed out … Continue reading Stepping Outta Line as a Thug Ass Bruja Goddess Advocating for Social Change